This post reviews David Gilmour’s The Film Club: A Memoir(New York: Twelve, 2008).
Gilmour, a Canadian novelist, movie critic, and media odd-jobber, here offers a memoir describing the experience of allowing his deadbeat 15 year-old son to drop out of school and live at his home rent-free on condition that father and son watch three movies of father’s choosing every week together and that son promise not to use drugs. For three years David and his son Jesse are ”the film club.”
The book is as much about the father-son relationship, booze, and sex as it is about watching movies and education. In this review however I will focus only on the “homeschooling” element. The “film club” David Gilmour concocts is not just a couple of guys watching random movies. Gilmour Sr. is an incisive film critic who has made a good living for many years reviewing movies in print and on television. He groups the movies he wants Jesse to see into several thematic units and introduces each one to Jesse with a good bit of historical, technical, and biographical detail such that after a while Jesse becomes a real film studies expert without even trying. David’s basic pedagogical instinct is to go with the grain of his son’s interests:
What can I get him to do that won’t be a repetition of the whole school debacle? He doesn’t read; he loathes sports. What does he like to do? He likes to watch movies…. What could we do with that?
Here’s one among many examples given in the book of David’s pedagogical approach, this time in preparation for a screening of Hitchock’s Notorious:
I opened things up with a brief introduction to Hitchock, Jesse as always on the left hand side of the couch, a coffee in his hand. I said that Hitchcock was an English director, a bit of a prick with a mildly unhealthy thing for some of the blond actresses in his films. (I wanted to capture his attention.) I went on to say that he made a half-dozen masterpieces, adding, unnecessarily, that anyone who didn’t agree with that probably didn’t love movies. I asked him to look for a couple of things in the film. The staircase inside the villain’s house in Rio de Janeiro. How long was it? How long would it take to go down it? I didn’t tell him why.
I asked him also to listen to the graceful, sometime ssuggestive dialogue, to remember that this film was made in 1946. I asked him to watch for a very famous camera shot that starts at the top of a ballroom and slowly descends into a group fo partygoers until it arrives, tight, on the clenched hand of Ingrid Bergman. What is she holding? (A key to the wine cellar where the evidence of the Nazi mischief is disguised in wine bottles.)
I went on to say that a number of distinguished critics maintain that Cary Grant may well have been the best actor, ever, in films, because he could “embody good and evil simultaneously.”
“You know what ‘simultaneously’ means?” I said.
“Yeah, yeah.”
I showed him an article that Pauline Kael wrote about Grant in The New Yorker. He may not be able to do much,” Kael wrote, “but what he can do no one else has ever done so well, and because of his civilized nonaggressiveness and his witty acceptance of his own foolishness we see ourselves idealized in him.”
Then I did what I wish all my high school teachers had done more often. I shut up and put the movie on.
After the viewing, David asks what Jesse noticed about the staircase. He points out to Jesse that the staircase is longer at the end of the movie when Cary Grant and Bergman are trying to flee the home, explaining that Hichcock built a second set of stairs for that final scene. “You know why he did that?”
“Why?”
“Because that way it would take longer to get them down them. Do you know why he wanted that?
“To make it more suspenseful?”
“Can you guess now what Hitchcock is famous for?”
“Suspense?”
I knew enough to stop right there. I thought, You taught him something today. Don’t kill it. I said, “That’s all for now; school’s out.”
After three years of such lessons, Jesse, the dropout whose only ambitions in life seem to revolve around maximizing the number of cigarettes and inebriants he can ingest while getting and keeping a hot girlfriend and succeeding as a rapper, eventually comes ’round:
Then one day–it seemed to come out of the blue–Jesse said, “I want to go back to school.” He signed up for a three-month crash course, math, science, history, all the horrors that had defeated him years before. I didn’t think he stood a chance…. His mother, the former high school teacher from the prairies, tutored him in her house in Greektown. It didn’t all go smoothly, especially the math. Sometimes he rose from the kitchen table shaking with rage and frustration and stormed around the block like a madman. But he always came back…
Jesse passed the course and was accepted into college. David’s next unit was going to be on films with great screenplays, but “we just ran out of time.” His son had outgrown the film club and was ready to enter the wider adult world.
Gilmour’s well-written memoir delivers many important insights about homeschooling today. It showcases a homeschooling family that is far outside of the traditional stereotype: a divorced father, a drop-out son, an irreligious context of profanity, alcoholism, and teen sexual license. It offers an innovative, perhaps unparallelled curriculum, suggesting that learning can start anywhere and still end everywhere. Its message is not intentionally political, but its depiction of Jesse’s frustration with compulsory education and his growing curiosity about the world upon escaping from the confines of school is its own sort of morality tale. That it ends happily only enhances the message that a loving parent, even one so flawed as David Gilmour, can, by understanding a child’s interests and desires, awaken a love for learning.

Thank you for drawing attention to this book!
I hadn’t heard of it before, but it’s right up our alley, and similar to what we’re doing in our neck of the homeschooling world.
Interesting. I’ve thought of using films in homeschooling. Quality films, but the type that would attract the attention of a kid with ADD. If anyone has any ideas on which movies, I’d love to hear about it.
Our family has movie night on Sundays and I’m the keeper of the netflix queue. Keeping in mind that I’m choosing movies for kids ranging in age from 12 to 5, here are three things I’ve tried to accomplish and some examples we’ve all enjoyed of each:
1. Use film to give my kids knowledge of great literature. The Shakespeare adaptations of Kenneth Branaugh, Masterpiece Theatre productions (especially Bleak House and Pride and Prejudice!), Depardieu’s Count of Monte Cristo (I had to read the subtitles out loud for the 5 year old but the whole family loved it!)
2. Use film to give my kids insight into other cultures. Kid friendly foreign titles we’ve enjoyed include Babbette’s Feast, The Secret of Roan Inish, everything put out by Studio Ghibli (especially Spirited Away!). As they get older I hope to do more with foreign film.
3. Use film to give my kids insight into the history of film, and by extension, American popular culture. Chaplin’s City Lights, for example, introduced them to silent film and also to the “roaring 20s.” We saw two versions of The Importance of Being Earnest (also satisfying criterion 1) to understand changing directorial styles and technology. Lots of great old hollywood movies out there (Arsenic and Old Lace was a favorite, as was North by Northwest and Bringing Up Baby. Carey Grant is irresistible for any age.)
These are just some examples from our family to yours! I should point out that we also watch movies just for fun. I wouldn’t have chosen A Night at the Museum or National Treasure 2 myself…
Thank you for profiling this book. I just finished it, and enjoyed it thoroughly. It’s great to see a dad involved in his son’s life!